A little honesty goes a long way!

"No one likes a liar"

 

People who personally know me know that I am probably one of the most brutally honest people out there! Even if I know it will hurt someone I always try to be as honest as I can be because 90% of the time its the right thing to do and the other 10% of the time I typically won't even respond unless they want to know how I truly feel or what I truly think. Some of my friends opt to not even tell me things on occasion cause they know I'll be honest with them and they just don't want to hear it.

So it bring me to this WHY?
Why lie?
Why hurt people with your dishonesty?
Why not just say how you really feel?
Just WHY?!

I was recently talking with some people and had them lie to me, no they dont know that I know they were being dishonest with me. Since having that conversation its been eating me up inside just wanting these people to share their honest and true feelings with me. It is way more hurtful to know you aren't sharing your true thoughts and feeling with me than it would be knowing how you really feel! Your probably wanting to know why I don't just ask, cause honestly I don't think I should have to. In my books if someone doesn't want to be open and honest with me than why are they even my friend? Your supposed to be able to trust your friends and know that when you go to them they are ALWAYS going to tell you how they truly feel and what they honestly think.

So next time you feel the need to lie or be dishonest, even a little lie that you think isn't going to hurt someone or that you are "sparing" their feeling by not being honest, give your flipping head a shake cause news flash sweet heart your only making yourself look like a fool!

Just a little food for thought! ♥
 

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9 Months!!



"You are my sunshine my only sunshine."

 

What do you mean she's 9 months old? Can we freeze time please!

I have been delaying the update cause Anya had her 9month appointment yesterday so I wanted to wait till I had her weight! Oh and taking her 9month photos felt impossible! She just wanted to rip the sticker off her shirt the entire time.

Anya is still so tiny weighing in at 15.5lbs. I didn't get her height but she's pretty tall! She has huge feet for her age size 4. She's still fits in 3-6 and 6 month clothes but they are typically not long enough so we have to get 9 months but than they are swimming on her waist we are in a bit of a sticky situation with her clothes right now.

She still eats everything we have given her and still has no teeth. She's a crawling climbing machine anything she can climb she will and keeping her on he main floor has become impossible, we really do need a baby gate! She still naps twice a day for about an hour each time and she sleeps from 7-7! It's nice that she sleeps through the night but I can't wait to go on holidays and sleep in!

She loves animals we took her to a petting zoo for Canada day and she was trying to kiss the goats! Yes she knows how to give kisses if you ask and she can also hug! She waves hi and by and claps her hands! We are now working on hi five!! Ripping up paper is her favorite thing to do currently! Or playing with whoever cell phone she can get ahold of!! Mommy is definitely her best friend and I'm sure she would be content if I held her 24/7.

Anya loves to be outside and with other kids! I really can't wait to go back to work and for her and Callum to hang out although I am sure they will be causing tons of trouble together! She still puts EVERYTHING in her mouth and it drives me CRAZY!! I'm so excited for all to come in the next three months and for her fist birthday!! Love you baby girl!

 

     



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